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I think we've all been th...Brilliant post! :) <br /><br />I think we've all been there - I know I have (and yes, that is both sides), and it can be hard. As long as you can turn the emotion towards something positive, though, then it's maybe not such a bad thing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08810952821295312008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-66259498875875194512010-08-21T22:11:33.428-04:002010-08-21T22:11:33.428-04:00Oops! Blushing on the Austen typo, Brittany. Th...Oops! Blushing on the Austen typo, Brittany. Thanks for calling me out!!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04453870542853254276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-39712307044250669392010-08-21T15:07:45.435-04:002010-08-21T15:07:45.435-04:00I only wish I had someone to envy...*sigh*
(May I...I only wish I had someone to envy...*sigh*<br /><br />(May I note: "Austen" instead of "Austin"?)Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14292452948545609854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-67377648986127828742010-08-21T13:08:15.651-04:002010-08-21T13:08:15.651-04:00There isn't a human soul on the planet that ha...There isn't a human soul on the planet that has not been "green" at some point in their life. Over something grand or not so grand. And, yes, if nothing else I hope it will make us all strive harder - not necessarily toward the identical goal, but one that will make us proud of ourselves, one that might make us...enviable.Wendy Tyler Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10841984342368861282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-26502421371322392262010-08-20T19:35:41.418-04:002010-08-20T19:35:41.418-04:00Wonderful post, beautifully written. I need not sa...Wonderful post, beautifully written. I need not say more except "thank you."June Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08570382577796763370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-69402754782733238802010-08-20T15:02:14.745-04:002010-08-20T15:02:14.745-04:00Well said. I suppose I mainly feel jealous of real...Well said. I suppose I mainly feel jealous of really bad writers who become famous due to nepotism, sleeping with certain people or just plain good fortune. But since I have a book coming out soon I can't be too pissed off!MommyHeadachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924035710478459520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-1014858866025659382010-08-20T14:40:12.164-04:002010-08-20T14:40:12.164-04:00Clicked over from SheWrites. Maybe there's env...Clicked over from SheWrites. Maybe there's envy in my writers group and I'm just blind to it. But it seems that what happens is that, with a few nasty exceptions, members put so much effort into helping each other that we each are able to feel success when one gets an agent, wins a prize or sells a book.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-61549625513824788592010-08-20T13:52:28.494-04:002010-08-20T13:52:28.494-04:00This is an interesting topic, and certainly a more...This is an interesting topic, and certainly a more productive way to look at it than many of the alternatives ... envy seems at first glance like such a useless, base, low emotion, and in many ways it is, but if you can put it to use, why not?<br /><br />Thanks for making me think.Matthew MacNishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03264738483763244969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-37776838949380801222010-08-20T13:32:07.505-04:002010-08-20T13:32:07.505-04:00I guess I've been fortunate to receive nothing...I guess I've been fortunate to receive nothing but support so far.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-67553056177309425012010-08-20T11:46:26.943-04:002010-08-20T11:46:26.943-04:00Kim, what a wonderful essay on something no one re...Kim, what a wonderful essay on something no one really talks about. God, I have felt so envious of others. At times, ridiculously consumed by it! And then it passes. I go back to being slightly less insane. :)<br /><br />Thank you for addressing this.R.S. Bohnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09101260459422806220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-89088927303208817882010-08-20T11:23:36.232-04:002010-08-20T11:23:36.232-04:00This is such a great, thoughtful post! I've re...This is such a great, thoughtful post! I've read and heard a lot about this phenomenon and not just among writers. It's smart to recognize it, acknowledge it, and then act like a grown up anyway.<br /><br />I'm always proud of the success of friends, even if I am also envious. Just because they have something that I want doesn't make me wish they didn't have it. And with something like writing, where you can work so hard and so long with no payoff, vicarious victories can be a real blessing. <br /><br />You can cheer for your friends and still be a little bit jealous. They might even get a kick out of it if you tell them so.Laurelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06120847492230531939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-18508874976434240792010-08-20T11:18:47.838-04:002010-08-20T11:18:47.838-04:00Hey, Kim! I clicked over from SheWrites and I'...Hey, Kim! I clicked over from SheWrites and I'm glad I did. What an excellent post! I've certainly envied others and had others envy me, and you're so right--it's icky either way. Thanks for illuminating a topic that all writers need to talk about more!Ami Mattisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391930163467566669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-21772094133494989132010-08-20T11:10:42.212-04:002010-08-20T11:10:42.212-04:00I totally identify, Jane. Hitting my 50's was...I totally identify, Jane. Hitting my 50's was great for getting perspective on both feeling envy and being the target of it. Maybe - at least to some degree - envy is a younger person's game?Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04453870542853254276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-16044373675293991772010-08-20T11:08:45.209-04:002010-08-20T11:08:45.209-04:00I was really glad to read this! I posted on this s...I was really glad to read this! I posted on this subject on my blog a while ago, and most of the comments basically said, "Oh, this isn't a problem for me." I worried I was the only one!<br /><br />(word verification: sproinge. Onomatopoeia FTW!)Jordan (MamaBlogga)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03982681295313550422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-55147312729919807312010-08-20T10:57:55.810-04:002010-08-20T10:57:55.810-04:00I've been envied. Not for being published, ala...I've been envied. Not for being published, alas. For small accomplishments. And I get all defensive and apologetic and burble about how I'm not so great and it doesn't make the other person envy me one whit less and it solves NOTHING.<br /><br />When I was at school I was a high achiever academically and people envied me, so do you know what I did? I achieved less. On purpose. I spent years achieving less so that I could just be one of the crowd. Now I see a beautiful, brilliant daughter of mine doing exactly the same thing. <br /><br />One of the benefits of middle age, perhaps, is that I know that I've only got a few years before my mind and/or health begin to deteriorate and I'm damn well going to use the gifts God gave me to the fullest. Which means, I suppose, letting go of both my envy of others (another advantage of getting older is that you envy people less, I find) and of my idiotic reactions to those who envy me. <br /><br />That was quite an insight for me, by the way, so thanks. Just shows you that reading your blogs instead of getting on with work can sometimes pay off.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07338002014574933192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7733835506387656648.post-69096912249790285312010-08-20T10:42:15.266-04:002010-08-20T10:42:15.266-04:00Awesome post about something few ever mention. I&...Awesome post about something few ever mention. I've surely felt it - <i>Him? He got an agent? With THAT?</i> - and yet the worst you can do is deny it's there, so thanks for shining a light on it.<br /><br />Having said that, one of the things I've most appreciated about blogs like this is how sincerely supportive everyone is towards everyone else, no matter where they are on the journey. To quote Spinal Tap, "I envy us."Steve MChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026970188928733645noreply@blogger.com